My 5 Ways To Achieve Your Dreams, are The Goal Setting Peptalk, How Authenticity Is The Key To Success, Visualisation, Empowering You To Believe It’s Possible, and Extra Help Making It Happen
Goal Setting Peptalk
In short, the truth of how to do goal setting, is that, if you don’t give up, you w have your goal, your dream.
Sounds simple doesn’t it. It’s true. You have the ability to realise your goal, your dream. You see, the more you work towards your goal, the more you will get completed. Stick with it long enough and all the work will be done towards it, which means that you will have achieved your goal.
Authenticity is the key to achieving your goal, see below. It, in a nutshell is just choosing the right goal, something that is right for you
Visualisation is the key to you believing that you goal is possible, and you being able to see yourself having achieved your goal, see below.
How Authenticity = Success
This is certainly the most rewarding and self esteem building one, of the 5 ways to achieve your dreams
Authenticity is important bc it is the motivation to keep w the goal, until fruition.
The more passion there is behind the goal, the more desire, the more you will want it. You will never let it go, until you have it.
This is why it is crucial to choose something that is fully aligned with who you are as a person.
The good thing about this, is that the more you get in touch with who you are as a person, the more rewarding you will find your goals, and your life.
Be honest w yourself about what you want out of life. Dare to go for the things that you rly want, not the things that you think are possible.
The truth is is that, it has the best chance of succeeding if you are honest about what you rly want and go for, the things that you are scared that aren’t possible.
The reason they are more likely to succeed, is bc you identify as this person. It is only natural to do something that is in alignment with who you are. You are okay to go after this, you are only being yourself. Nothing anyone says can put you off.
When you own that you feel that you are the kind of person who w go for something like this, you w never stop until you have achieved your goal.
It is just being brave enough to say that I want this. This is definitely one of the 5 ways to achieve your dreams.
Visualisation
Of the 5 ways to achieve your dreams, this is the one that w make you feel like you are getting somewhere, like you are making real progress.
The truth is is that, when you visualise being closer to your dream, you are making real progress.
The reason is that the thing that will be of most benefit to you, is belief. With belief, you get the most bang for your buck, of any effort that you put in.
If you believe in yourself, fully, you will actually find this game, no problem. No one w ever, be able to put you off or make you doubt yourself. Self belief, Ima be real w you here, w make this an absolute cake walk.
Many many many, successful people are real w everyone, they say that self belief is the way to get after it, working on this is literally so important.
Managing The Effort You Are Willing To Put In
This is key. You have to kinda back engineer your goal from the amount of time and effort you are willing to put into it. Remember, to be real, it w always take more effort than you think, so allow for this.
You have to make sure that your goal is attainable. You only have so much time to spend on it per week. You only are willing to work on it for a certain number of months.
As not giving up is the secret to success here, it is vital that you choose something that w take the amount of effort you are willing to give.
Really, managing the effort, and authenticity, are like an either-or thing. Whether you choose to do something that is very attainable w the time resources you have, or whether it is attainable bc you want it so bad, you w never stop… either option you choose; you will have the motivation to complete it.
Authentic passions tend to take a crazy amount of effort to complete on, real pain and frustration. However the rewards are truly life changing and self esteem building. Like I say, these are actually the easiest to complete on, bc the will to carry on working on them, no matter what, means that realising the goal is pretty inevitable.
Extra Help Making It Happen
There are all sorts of courses out there, that teach lots of different ways to make money online. They are a shortcut to getting where you want to be; tho, I felt they were expensive, which was a huge downside for me.
Im ngl, this path to your dream w throw everything at you, it possibly can to put you off
Self improvement, like actually improving the person you are. This is probably what you are looking for around achieving your goal.
It’s kinda taboo, for people to wanna make themselves better people. They feel going after money or status, more palatable than just gunning for the self esteem directly.
Once I had the self esteem, I realised that I could have just focussed on this, money doesn’t actually matter.
I became a better person through following my dreams, my self esteem is infinitely higher than before, to be real, I am a totally different person.
Some people think that money is for someone else. They think that entrepreneurs had like some innate quality where they found it a breeze to do this.
Most of them, they found it so hard they nearly gave up, many times; it was total torture, sticking with it, egregious problem, after egregious problem.
They doubted themselves, they doubted they had the self worth to do it.
Most of them had low self esteem when they started out, didn’t feel worthy, I’m not kidding.
Like I say, it was the adversity, that made that person, the one who just seems so confident. You can be like them, just like them.
The Big Misconception
Saving the best till last…
Ima take a stab at why you want, have this goal. You want to improve your self esteem.
Let’s say that you want to make some money. It this bc you feel that it w make you feel happier.
Actually pursuing the goal; Ima be real w you here. It increases self esteem the whole time you are working towards it.
Yes, people give up; they do. Had they continued, to work on it… their self esteem w have continued to rise.
I am now so happy. It is not bc the goal has been reached. The goal doesn’t have to be reached, for me to feel very high self esteem. The self esteem has come, before the goal.
In fact, it w be my self esteem, that w allow me, give me the tools, to get it done. Idk how to explain it, it’s true tho.
Miss K 